Never Say These 17 Things to Full-Figured Women (18 pics)




People call fat girls fat as if we didnt know that when we left the house

Im fat. Its not a big deal – to me. Big girls get a lot of flak, though. So do thin girls, I know

Im fat. Its not a big deal – to me. Big girls get a lot of flak, though.
So do thin girls, I know that, but go check out Bye Felipe on Insta.
Dont worry. Ill wait. See a pattern?
A guy gets angry at a girl for rejecting him or ignoring him or taking too long to respond, and his immediate response is to call her fat and let her know shes not attractive anyway.
Its still the go-to insult for women no matter what their size.
People call fat girls fat as if we didnt know that when we left the house.
So on behalf of all my thick sisters, please, I beg of you – can you stop saying these things to full-figured women?
1. “IM JUST TRYING TO HELP YOU.”

 No, youre not. Unless you are someones doctor, you know nothing about their health except what y

No, youre not. Unless you are someones doctor, you know nothing about their health except what you see. Now, I know some people talk to their bigger friends with the best of intentions, they dont intend to be mean or disrespectful at all, but still. In that case, unless someone asks for your help or advice, assume they maybe dont want it.
2. “YOURE JUST CURVY.”

 While our curves are fierce, yes, theres no need for euphemisms. 3. “WHY CANT YOU BE MORE LIK

While our curves are fierce, yes, theres no need for euphemisms.
3. “WHY CANT YOU BE MORE LIKE …”

 Because eff you, thats why. I cant me more like anybody else because then whos gonna be like me?

Because eff you, thats why. I cant me more like anybody else because then whos gonna be like me?
4. “YOURE A BIG GIRL.”

 Oh my god, are you serious? When did that happen? I didnt know! WHY HASNT ANYONE EVER TOLD ME?!

Oh my god, are you serious? When did that happen? I didnt know! WHY HASNT ANYONE EVER TOLD ME?!
5. “I DONT HAVE A HUGE PROBLEM WITH BIG GIRLS.”

 I dont have a huge problem with big assholes, either, so thats cool. We cool. 6. “YOU SHOULDN

I dont have a huge problem with big assholes, either, so thats cool. We cool.
6. “YOU SHOULDNT WEAR …”

 LET ME STOP YOU RIGHT THERE. You shouldnt wear your face. BLAM. 7. “ITS A SHAME, YOUVE GOT SU

LET ME STOP YOU RIGHT THERE. You shouldnt wear your face. BLAM.
7. “ITS A SHAME, YOUVE GOT SUCH A PRETTY FACE.”

 Thats actually not a shame at all. My fabulous face goes with my equally fabulous body. 8. “Y

Thats actually not a shame at all. My fabulous face goes with my equally fabulous body.
8. “YOU SURE YOU WANT DESSERT?”

 I am sure. Im super sure. But thank you for asking. 9. “DONT WORRY, I LIKE THICK GIRLS.”

I am sure. Im super sure. But thank you for asking.
9. “DONT WORRY, I LIKE THICK GIRLS.”

 So do I, actually.  10. “I WISH I ENJOYED FOOD LIKE YOU DO.”

So do I, actually.
10. “I WISH I ENJOYED FOOD LIKE YOU DO.”

 This is so bless-your-heart savage, though. The passive aggression is so strong in this phrase,

This is so bless-your-heart savage, though. The passive aggression is so strong in this phrase, I cant even look at it anymore.
11. “YOU LOOK GOOD FOR YOUR SIZE.”

 COMPLIMENTS DO NOT REQUIRE QUALIFIERS, YOU BACK-HANDED BITCHES. Ahem. Sorry! 12. “YOURE NOT T

COMPLIMENTS DO NOT REQUIRE QUALIFIERS, YOU BACK-HANDED BITCHES. Ahem. Sorry!
12. “YOURE NOT THAT FAT.”

 Im just fat enough, right? Who IS “that fat,” though? Who qualifies? 13. “WANT TO JOIN AN EXE

Im just fat enough, right? Who IS “that fat,” though? Who qualifies?
13. “WANT TO JOIN AN EXERCISE CLASS WITH ME?”

 No, no, no, I know this is usually nice, and if its coming from a friend or close family member,

No, no, no, I know this is usually nice, and if its coming from a friend or close family member, it probably has nothing at all to do with your weight. Delivered in the wrong way or coming from the wrong person, though, it can sting.
14. “YOUD BE SO PRETTY IF YOU LOST WEIGHT.”

 I am pretty now. Look at this face. 15. “DO YOU WANT SOME? I ALREADY KNOW YOU ARE HUNGRY.”

I am pretty now. Look at this face.
15. “DO YOU WANT SOME? I ALREADY KNOW YOU ARE HUNGRY.”

 To paraphrase MoNique, that may be true, but damn, you aint got to say it! 16. “WHY DID YOU L

To paraphrase MoNique, that may be true, but damn, you aint got to say it!
16. “WHY DID YOU LET YOURSELF GET SO BIG?”

 Dont. Just dont do that. Dont make the assumption that all large people just sit around eating a

Dont. Just dont do that. Dont make the assumption that all large people just sit around eating and drinking all day long.
17. “MAYBE YOU SHOULDNT EAT THAT.”

 But did I ask for your opinion? See, thats the question. Full-figured women are beautiful – all 

But did I ask for your opinion? See, thats the question. Full-figured women are beautiful – all women are beautiful, regardless of size.
The thing to take away is that you dont need to intrude on anyones life like that – again, regardless of their size.
And if youre experiencing it, you dont have to take it. Do you. Love yourself. Be kind.
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